Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.

Morality cannot be legislated, but behavior can be regulated. Judicial decrees may not change the heart, but they can restrain the heartless.

A right delayed is a right denied.

Like an unchecked cancer, hate corrodes the personality and eats away its vital unity. Hate destroys a man's sense of values and his objectivity. It causes him to describe the beautiful as ugly and the ugly as beautiful, and to confuse the true with the false and the false with the true.

Martin Luther King Jr.

Sunday, November 08, 2009

Trans-issues In The News

There were a couple of news articles that caught my eye this week, the first was a New York Times article about the glass ceiling for women that is called “Before That Sex Change, Think About Your Next Paycheck” and the other article is another New York Times article about “Can a Boy Wear a Skirt to School?”

The first story, I found by a back-link to another Catherine Rampell article where she wrote,
You might expect that anybody who has had a sex change, or even just cross-dresses on occasion, would suffer a wage cut because of social stigmatization. Wrong, or at least partly wrong. Turns out it depends on the direction of the change: the study found that earnings for male-to-female transgender workers fell by nearly one-third after their gender transitions, but earnings for female-to-male transgender workers increased slightly.

The study, published in the B.E. Journal of Economic Analysis & Policy, was based on survey data the authors collected from 64 transgender workers. The authors, Kristen Schilt at the University of Chicago and Matthew Wiswall at New York University, theorize male-to-female workers tend to be penalized and female-to-male workers modestly rewarded because of anti-woman, rather than just anti-transgender, discrimination.

Ben Barres, a female-to-male transgender neuroscientist at Stanford, found that his work was more highly valued after his gender transition. “Ben Barres gave a great seminar today,” a colleague of his reportedly said, “but then his work is much better than his sister’s.”

Dr. Barres, of course, doesn’t have a sister in academia.
I think that this article emphasis what women have said all along, that their ideas and contributions are trivialized in the workplace. The transgender community is in a unique position to prove that the discrimination is real. I have heard the same thing from my friends, that even though the employer supported their transition, that as a women their views were being ignored. She is a project engineer with a EE and a MBA and before her transition “his” ideas were valued. Now, her ideas are glossed over, only to be brought up later by a man and then everyone thinks it is a great idea. Conversely, I have a friend who is a trans-man and he reports that his every comment is taken as a fact, even on a topic he knows nothing about.

In the other New York Times article that was written by Jan Hoffman, she writes,
BY now, most high school dress codes have just about done away with the guesswork.

Girls: no midriff-baring blouses, stiletto heels, miniskirts.

Boys: no sagging pants, muscle shirts.

But do the math.

Rules” + “teenager” = “challenges.”

If the skirt is an acceptable length, can a boy wear it?

Can a girl attend her prom in a tuxedo?

Last week, a cross-dressing Houston senior was sent home because his wig violated the school’s dress code rule that a boy’s hair may not be “longer than the bottom of a regular shirt collar.” In October, officials at a high school in Cobb County, Ga., sent home a boy who favored wigs, makeup and skinny jeans. In August, a Mississippi student’s senior portrait was barred from her yearbook because she had posed in a tuxedo.

Other schools are more accepting of unconventional gender expression. In September, a freshman girl at Rincon High School in Tucson who identifies as male was nominated for homecoming prince. Last May, a gay male student at a Los Angeles high school was crowned prom queen.

But when officials want to discipline a student whose wardrobe expresses sexual orientation or gender variance, they must consider antidiscrimination policies, mental health factors, community standards and classroom distractions.

And safety is a critical concern. In February 2008, Lawrence King, an eighth-grader from Oxnard, Calif., who occasionally wore high-heeled boots and makeup, was shot to death in class by another student.

At Wesson Attendance Center, a Mississippi public school, just that sort of fight erupted over senior portraits. Last summer, during her photo session, Ceara Sturgis, 17, dutifully tried on the traditional black drape, the open-necked robe that reveals the collarbone, a hint of bare shoulder.

“It was terrible!” said Ms. Sturgis, an honors student, band president and soccer goalie, who has been openly gay since 10th grade. “If you put a boy in a drape, that’s me! I have big shoulders and ooh, it didn’t look like me! I said, ‘I can’t do this!’ So my mom said, ‘Try on the tux.’ And that looked normal.”


Dress codes should not be enforced based on gender, rather they should be based on the clothes. The code should not say boys will wear… and girls will wear… but rather slacks or shorts must be below the knee and skirt or dresses must be below the knee. You are enforcing a minimum standard dress code rather then a gender stereo type. In response to the comment about causing disruptions or violence in school, punish the bully or the disruptor not the victim. Have a zero tolerance policy on bullying.

Saturday, November 07, 2009

Saturday Six – Episode 291

Patrick’s Place Saturday Six – Episode 291

1. In the last year, which single person has helped you relieve the most of your stress?
I don’t know if it one person, I have a network of friends and family that I can count on to help me.

2. In the last year, which single place have you found the most restful, relaxing place to be?

Up at our family’s lake cottage in New Hampshire

3. What single activity relieves the most stress for you?
Photography, I can zone out taking picture.

4. Do you feel that your church (or your faith) relieves more stress or causes more stress?
No.

5. Take the quiz: How Should You De-stress?




You Should Play Some Music



Part of what's stressing you out is that you can't stop thinking about your problems. Whenever you try to relax, you can't stop your mind from racing.
The best thing you can do is crowd out your thoughts. And there's no easier way to do this than by cranking some music.

Dancing is optional but highly recommended. Give yourself a break from your stress and really let loose.
Or put on some of your old favorite music (happy music only though!). Sit back and remember what it was like not to be so overwhelmed.




6. Which is more important for you: to “de-stress” or “recharge?”
De-stressing, I need a place of quite to get away from the every day pressures

Friday, November 06, 2009

Saturday 9: Be True to Your School

Sam’s Saturday 9: Be True to Your School



1. What was your favorite subject in high school?
I never really had a favorite subject, I hated school! I was always on the outside looking in, now a days you would have called me a nerd.

2. Do you watch reality shows? Which ones?

Nope! Never watched any.

3. What's your favorite all time reality show?
See above.

4. Do you feel "reality" shows are real or are they faked?
They are just boring with contrived drama.

5. What did you look like when you were a teenager?
This was from my college days.

6. Whose advice do you listen to?

Are you kidding? I was a teenager, I listened to no one.

7. How often are you sick?

Three or four times a year, until I stopped biting my finger nails

8. Do you like or dislike change?
Yes.

9. How many times in your life have you had a broken heart?
Twice.

#8 I like change, but only for the good. I like change in social justice issues. However, I like the sameness in my life; I lived all my life in this town. It is familiar and comfortable like an old shoe.

With High Unemployment And More People Using Foodbanks…

Where do you think Governor Rell cut the budget? Over half of the $34 millions in cuts were made to Department of Social Services, Medicaid programs, Department of Children and Families and Department of Development Services.
In the Connecticut News Junkie blog reported,
The Department of Social Services budget was cut by $7.25 million, including $700,000 out of the $753,000 in aid to the blind and almost $1 million of the $38 million in old age assistance. Also, funds budgeted for outreach efforts for Husky, the Medicaid program for low-income children and families, was cut by $35,000. The Department of Children and Families received an $8.6 million cut, including board and care for foster children and those in residential care. The Department of Development Services, which provides assistance to the disabled, was cut by $3.75 million.
This is outrageous! When more people then ever are in need of assistance because of the economy, it is immoral to make the cuts to social services. The two major areas of the Department of Developmental Services budget that took the hit were, Personal Services ($3,487,500) and Clinical Services ($170,000). In the Department of Social Services the budget cuts were made in Personal Services ($5,500,000), Old Age Assistance ($1,000,000) and Aid to the Disabled ($700,000). Yeah, lets throw the old folks and the disabled out on the streets! Other cuts were made in the Department of Children and Families budget in Personal Services ($2,500,000), Board and Care for Children - Foster ($3,500,000) and Board & Care - Residential ($2,500,000). Who cares about the kids – let them sell drugs and sell their bodies. Then we can lock them up in prison. In addition, the Workers' Compensation Commission budget was cut in both Personal ($400,000) and Rehabilitative ($114,403) Services.

We are cutting help to the most needy of our society, the children and the disabled and at the same time the governor refuses to increase the taxes on those making over a $1,000,000!

Friday Fill-Ins #149

Janet’s Friday Fill-Ins #149
http://fridayfillins.blogspot.com/

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1. Plans and schedules _are make to be changed_.

2. I'm happy when things _finally go as planned_.

3. The last thing I drank was _apple cider_.

4. One of the most valuable things in my life is _being able to live my life_.

5. I like _pepper, onions and sausage _ on my pizza.

6. Dear November, _please don’t snow over Thanksgiving weekend_.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _going to the coffee shop_, tomorrow my plans include _a fundraiser dinner_ and Sunday, I want have to _get back to doing homework_!

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Maine Votes Down Marriage Equality 52% - 47% Our battle is not over!

It took 144 years for women to get the right to vote! Only 13 states passed a Women’s Suffrage ballot imitative, but some of those took multiply attempts before they passed, in Oregon, it took six attempts before it passed. However, 16 states did not pass the Women’s Suffrage voter initiatives.

Human Rights should not be subject a popular vote! The LGBT population is only about 5% of the population, but 47% of the people came out to vote in favor of the basic Human Right to be able to marry the person that you love. I do not think that Human Rights be at the whim of the majority.

We will be back next year, and the year after that, no matter how long it will take. I hope that it does not take as long as it took to get women suffrage... but we shall prevail in the end!

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

Kalamazoo residents approve nondiscrimination ordinance

From Bilerico Project

Our campaign started with a very basic idea, and today voters confirmed that we are One Kalamazoo," said Campaign Manager, Jon Hoadley.

With only absentee ballots outstanding, 65 percent of Kalamazoo voters have approved Ordinance 1856 by a vote of 6,463 to 3,527, adding protections for gay and transgender people to the city's nondiscrimination ordinance. This margin is larger than the number of outstanding absentee ballots that are currently being counted.

"I am elated with the outcome of the election," says Yes on Ordinance 1856/One Kalamazoo Steering Committee member and local resident Janice Brown. "This vote reinforces what our campaign set out to prove - that our fellow residents of Kalamazoo share the belief that all people should be treated fairly and equally, including gay and transgender people."

The outcome of today's vote confirmed that all hardworking people in Kalamazoo should have the chance to earn a living and provide for themselves and their families without fear of being fired for reasons that have nothing to do with their job performance.

"Kalamazoo is a great place to live and the passage of Ordinance 1856 makes the city an even better place," says local resident Rev. Matt Laney, Pastor of the First Congregational Church. "I am proud to live in a city that recognizes that all people deserve fairness and respect."

The Yes on 1856/ One Kalamazoo campaign in support of the nondiscrimination ordinance involved hundreds of local volunteers and contributors, and had the endorsement of over 30 local religious, social, business, and political organization. The campaign would like to thank the Kalamazoo community for asserting their belief in the inherent equality of all Kalamazoo residents, and the countless volunteers for their hard work and dedication in recent months - and in some case, years - to ensure the passage of the ordinance.

When The Agency That Is Suppose To Protect Our Children Doesn’t

In Pennsylvania, the Philadelphia Inquirer reports that Philadelphia's Department of Human Services discriminates against trans-youth. In an article they say,
DHS discrimination against transgender teen alleged
By Sam Wood
Inquirer Staff Writer
Sun, Nov. 1, 2009

A transgender teenager who identifies as a girl said she was subject to constant abuse and discrimination during 18 months in the custody of Philadelphia's Department of Human Services.

At the Youth Study Center, the 16-year-old teen was placed in the boys' unit, where, she said, staff and residents harassed her despite a judge's order that she be addressed by her preferred female name and female pronouns.

In November 2007, the teen was admitted to the Youth Study Center.

The social worker diagnosed gender identity disorder, a condition marked by the persistent discomfort of a person's own sexual anatomy and a strong identification with the opposite sex.

The next month, Common Pleas Court Judge Abram Frank Reynolds ordered that the teen be addressed with her female name and that female pronouns be used when referring to her. He also authorized DHS to administer hormone therapy to the teen to delay puberty.

The complaint contends that staff at the Youth Study Center ignored the order and heaped abuse on her.

One staffer allegedly told her that as long as she had male genitalia, "I'm not going to call you by [her female name]." When she asked for a bra and panties, another staffer hurled an insult and refused to accommodate her.

Though she repeatedly asked to be placed with girls, she was kept in the boys' unit, where residents threatened her, it states.

Staff allowed her to spend one night on the girls' unit. That was the only night in the custody of the Youth Study Center that she slept without fear of being harassed and abused, the complaint states.
Here in Connecticut, a trans-youth was being harassed in high school by a bully, so what did the school do to stop the harassment? Do you think that they disciplined the bully? No they didn’t, they transferred the trans-youth to a school for trouble-makers. Later, the bully was also transferred to the school for trouble-makers where he resumed his bullying of the trans-girl. The girl was forced to drop out of school and is now being home-schooled.

There is a responsibility that the government takes on when they assume custody of our children which is to provide a safe learning environment, to protect and nurture them. I feel that what was done to these children was criminal and those who harassed these children should have been punished.

Here in Connecticut the organization that helps LGBT youth is True Colors and nationally the organization that helps trans-youth is Trans-Youth Family Allies

Monday, November 02, 2009

Homophobia Gone Wild – Town Orders Gays To Leave Town

This is unbelievable…
GAYS MUST LEAVE TODAY!
The Jamaican Star
By Dwayne Mcleod, Staff Reporter

Today has been proclaimed 'Gay Eradication Day' by residents of the McGregor Gully community in East Kingston. Residents say that they will be taking action as a two-week notice given to all gays and lesbians to flee the community has now expired.

THE STAR learnt that about two weeks ago angry residents who declared that they were fed up with seeing the activities of several gay persons in their community, ordered that they leave by today or suffer the consequences.

The residents say they will not stop until their community is "gay free" and are not afraid of resorting to extreme measures.


Stop the Hate!

Sunday, November 01, 2009

Manic Monday #187

Lisa’s Manic Monday #187



Most of the U.S. observed Daylight Savings Time yesterday. Is it easy or difficult for you to switch your body clock? Do you suffer from jet lag when traveling?
Yes! I woke up on Savings Time, I wanted to eat on Savings Time and I want to go to bed on Savings Time. In addition, I hate changing 14 clocks!
Yes, I also get jet lag. When I flew out to Washington State, it was horrible for me, my internal clock went “Bong” and broke its main spring.

If you had to pick one place in your town to bring a tourist, where would you go?
There is not too much in town to take anyone to see. There is nothing fancy to show a tourist, I would rather take them down to Mystic Seaport or up to Ol’ Sturbridge village.

When you travel away from home, do you miss it?
Yes, coming home always feels so good to sleep in your own bed.

Housing For The Trans-community

I am researching a term paper for one of my classes, where we have to research and analyze a government policy and the policy that I chose is HMIS or the Homeless Management Information System. Huh? It is a requirement that is imposed on homeless shelter if they receive federal fund and outline the data that they have to collect. A part of that requirement is that they collect information on the client’s gender and a new requirement just modified is section 3.5. They now require information if the client is MtF or FtM transsexual!

My research found based on the data collected here in Connecticut that 0.1% of the homeless population is transgendered or 3 trans-persons are in homeless shelters in Connecticut. Why is this important? It is because many time when we seek funding to assist the homeless trans-community we are asked how many are homeless, well now we have a definitive answer. Now maybe the spigot of funds might open up a little bit more.

In other housing news that is related to the LGBT community, HUD has proposed a new policy on regulations protect LGBT people from housing discrimination for renters in the HUD programs. According to an article in the New York Times…
Gay Renters to Get Some Discrimination Protection
By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
Published: October 30, 2009
“If the regulations pass, gay and transgender renters would get legal firepower they've never had, though not as extensive as other protected classes. The proposed regulations only cover HUD rental programs, so not all apartments will be included.”

“The federal Fair Housing Act of 1968, which covers all housing, prohibits discrimination based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. It was amended in 1988 to include familial status and handicap. HUD investigates about 10,500 discrimination complaints a year. In cases involving threats of force, offenders can be criminally prosecuted.”

“In 2007, Michigan's Fair Housing Centers compared the treatment of same-sex couple versus heterosexual couples by landlords, real estate agents and lenders. Though the same-sex couples were given higher incomes and credit scores than their counterparts, one-third reported landlord discrimination.”

“And in Detroit, a landlord ticked off the apartment rules: ‘No drugs, prostitution, homosexuality, one-night stands.'”

Saturday, October 31, 2009

My Story Part 6 - Things My Mother Never Told Me


I was up at Fantasia Fair in Provincetown MA and the morning that I took this picture we were wandering around the Highland Lighthouse grounds in North Truro. We went into the little gift shop at the base of the lighthouse and they asked if we would want to take a tour of the lighthouse. So we decided to join the group of people to tour the lighthouse. As I walked along with the group the guide explained the history of the lighthouse and as we started to climb the open spiral staircase to the top of the lighthouse, all of a sudden I realized that I was wearing a skirt! That I would make a great show for the people behind me as I climbed the staircase, so I went to the back of the line and went up last and I made sure I was the first one down the stairs.

Saturday Six – Episode 290

Patrick’s Place Saturday Six – Episode 290

1. We’ll start with a trivia question, and just for fun, no searching for the answer: it should be a guess! There’s only one day of the week that Halloween hasn’t fallen on since this blog began. What day of the week would you guess that is? (I’ll reveal the answer on Monday!)
I would say Tuesday, but that is only a wild guess since I don’t know when you started Saturday Six.

2. Would you dress a pet up for halloween? Do you think yours would enjoy it or hate it?
No, I think that the pet would be indifferent to it.

3. (And yes, I realize this is a potentially-loaded question!) Should news anchors on shows like Today dress up on the air for Halloween, or should they stick to news only?
Well I do not consider the Today show or other morning shows as “news shows”. Therefore, it does not bother me.

4. If you were to buy only one kind of candy to hand out to trick-or-treaters, and that candy happened to be your favorite, what would end up filling your candy bowl?
A very small amount would go in to the candy bowl. It one be one for me, one for the trick-or-treaters, two form me, one for the trick-or-treaters, etc…

5. Over at the newly-redesigned CNN.com, there’s a halloween quiz about famous movie quotes. Take the quiz: How well did you do?

6 out of ten – A demon loving dilettante - You are a true child of the night.
I'm surprised since I didn't see most of the movies.

6. What horror movie theme music do you think is the scariest?
The music from the Alfred Hickok movies.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Saturday 9: She's a Beauty

Crazy Sam’s Saturday 9: She's a Beauty



1. Do you consider yourself beautiful?
No, I’m over weight

2. Do you think you have a great sense of humor?
I have a subtle sense of humor

3. What is the funniest thing you ever said?
Long, long time ago, when I was a teenager and we were shopping at the mall with some friends. A friend was talking to me and I answered by making a buzzing sound replacing the words and just using inflections… Buzz, buZZz, BuzzZ, BUzz, buzz, buzz?

4. What's the funniest thing you ever did?
Oh… I don’t if I could remember any. After all that is a span of six decades.

5. In a partner, how important are looks?
Are we suppose to use a Likert scale? I’ll answer “somewhat”

6. In a partner, how important is sense of humor?
Moderate

7. What's the funniest thing a partner ever said?
Oh, I don’t know. I don’t keep a score card

8. What's the funniest thing a partner ever did?
See above.

9. In a partner, how important is intelligence?
Somewhat, I think the chemistry between partners is the most important thing in choosing a partner.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Friday Fill-ins #148

Janet’s Friday Fill-ins #148

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1. It was a dark and stormy night, _when the boat sail on a three hours voyage_.

2. _They ordered the wrong books for her_ so I offered to take the books myself.

3. Rushing out, _I realized that I had just locked myself out of my house_.

4. _It’s a full moon tonight_...I think I heard a howl!

5. Shhhh... _you can hear the doors creak_.

6. _I hope at the awards dinner that they_ give me something good to eat!

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _going to the coffee shop_, tomorrow my plans include _doing homework_ and Sunday, I want have to _finish writing this week's paper_!

Maine - Protect Marriage Equality Vote No On1

Matthew Shepard and James Byrd Hate Crime Bill

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

My Story Part 5

This week’s story is a short story because I have two papers to write for my classes next week.

As part of the medical “gatekeeper” requirements to begin hormones, you are required to have at least 3 months on therapy. Well I had never been in therapy before so I had no idea what to expect, only the image of the parody that we see in the comics or on TV.

So here I am walking into to her office and there low and behold is the classic over stuffed chair and a couch. I sit in the overstuffed chair. After she took my history and demographics she said the we were going to do word association, she said “big” and I said “small…(giggle)” She said, “father” and I said “mother…(giggle)” She said, “house” and I just started to giggle uncontrollably. She asked me what was so funny and I said this is so “classic, right out of the Bob Newhart show… this is so, so Freudian!”

I guess I did all right because three months later I was approved for hormones. There are a number trans-people who are opposed to the Standard of Care that is imposed upon us by the medical community. They see it as hoops that we have to jump through in order to receive hormones and surgery. However, I do not feel that way, there have been studies that have shown there are less regrets by following the SOC. For more information on the APA and Gender Identity Reform read “Diagnosis vs. Treatment: Barriers to Medical Care

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Did You Know In Connecticut…

That if you vote for a third party candidate who is also is a candidate for another party that the votes are totaled together.

Suppose a Democratic candidate is also on the Green party ballot, the candidate receive the total of the two votes. Say the candidate receives 1500 vote from the Democratic Party ticket and 500 from the Green Party ticket, the candidate total vote would be 2000 votes and if the Republican candidate received 1750 votes the Republican would lose.

Connecticut is one of a few states that tally the votes for the candidate, not the party. Therefore, you are not reducing the votes for the candidate, but you are sending a message that you support the alternative party platform. I had always not voted for the minority party because I didn’t want to let the other major party win by default, but now that I know this I will be voting for the minority candidate to send a message. I wish other states did that, it will break the strangle hold that the major parties have and allow minority party to form.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Saturday Six – Episode 289

Patrick’s Place Saturday Six – Episode 289

1. What is the most unusual ethnic food you’ve had at a restaurant recently?
Pizza with clam sauce.

2. What is the last ethnic dish you tried to make at home?
Lasagna. (Hey! Italian food is ethnic food!)

3. Regarding your answer to question 2, was your concoction better or worse than you’d hoped?

Better, it came out very good. I used no boil Lasagna noodles

4. What exotic dish do you most wish you could replicate in your own kitchen?

Lobster ravioli with a Newberg sauce

5. Take the quiz: Which What Kind of Chinese Food Are You?




You Are Sweet and Sour Pork



You are a highly emotional and sometimes even volatile person. You tend to be extremely unpredictable.
One moment you're sweet. The next moment you're sour. And who's to say that you can't be both at once.

You tend to order erratically and unusually off the menu of life. You go with your gut, and sometimes your gut is in the mood for some pretty weird combinations.
You've had some pretty crazy adventures in your life, without even trying you. You just go with what you are feeling, no matter where it leads you.





6. Have you ever tried the dish mentioned in the answer to question 5?
I hate sweet and sour pork… give me Bar-B-Q ribs any day.

I think you get my drift here, I hate ethic foods. I’ll eat them if I have to, but I very rarely enjoy them.

National Transgender Discrimination Survey

The National Center for Transgender Equality and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force released the report last month on discrimination in the work place. the report found,

KEY FINDINGS
▪▪ Double the rate of unemployment: Survey respondents experience unemployment at twice the rate of the population as a whole.

▪▪ Ninety-seven percent (97%) have experienced mistreatment, harassment, or discrimination on the job including:removal from direct contact with clients, disclosure of confidential information to co-workers, and physical or sexual assault. Poverty

▪▪ High rates of poverty: Fifteen percent (15%) of transgender people in our sample lived on $10,000 per year or less–double the rate of the general population.

▪▪ Forty-seven percent (47%) of survey respondents experienced an adverse job action because they are transgender — they did not get a job, were denied a promotion or were fired—that directly impacted their employment status.

▪▪ A staggering number of the people surveyed, 26%, lost their jobs due to their gender identity/expression. Particularly hard hit were those who were Black (32%) or Multiracial (37%).

Saturday, October 24, 2009

The Conference

I was at a Human Rights conference at UConn yesterday and today, I learned a lot and took copious notes. The last panel discussion that I went to was titled “Neither Separate Nor Equal: Human Rights and the Rights of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered Individuals in the United States”

My question for you, did the panel cover:

a. no tans-topics
b. a token amount of trans-topics
c. was a quarter trans-topics
d. all trans-topics

If you answered “b”, you were correct. There was just a token amount trans-issues that was covered. However, the discussion was very good, one panelist talked about how the image of the rich gay is hurting the passage of Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). The opposition is saying there is no need for employment protection their earning show that they are not being discriminated. The speaker pointed out that the LG population earns less than the general population if you break the data down to like individuals. If you compare single heterosexual males to gay males, the gay males earn less or of you compare married heterosexual couples with a child with a homosexual couples with a child, the heterosexual couple earns.

I just got home and I am tired! Sitting around all day takes a lot out of you.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Saturday 9: Hey Jealousy

Crazy Sam’s Saturday 9: Hey Jealousy



1. Tell us a story when you got jealous.
I don’t get jealous.

2. What is your least favorite thing about yourself?
My weight

3. Who do you mess with the most?
The computer and these memes!
[7:27AM Ops... I miss read the question - Since I don't like to be messed with, I don't mess with anyone.]

4. Do you have any special talents? What are they?
I can wiggle my nose and ears at the same time.

5. If you could have a secret fling that no one would ever find out about, would you?
No. Since I am single, why should I hide an affair and if I was married, I wouldn’t have an affair.

6. What's the furthest you've been from home?
The west coast

7. How many Saturday 9 player's blogs do you typically visit?
All that leave a comment.

8. Some great bloggers lose their "mojo" and quit blogging. Could you see that happening to you?
Yes, someday, I hope not for a while. If I do, I will not leave you dangling, I will let you know that I stopped. I hate it when someone stops cold turkey, you do not know if they are alright or if something happened to them.

9. What's the biggest mistake you've made so far this year?

I don’t know if I made any mistakes this year. However, I have made some great ones. One time I defibrillated a whole room. We were testing defibrillators and I accidentally had it connected to the AC power lines through an oscilloscope and everything in the room went poof! $10,000 later everything was repaired.